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optamisstech

Janesville, Wisconsin | Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Dated very seldom the past five years, would love to make friends with someone who has a positive attitude, is smart enough to know he still has a lot to learn and confident enough to know he can. One who can both talk AND listen. And, if it’s not asking too much, someone who understands that sometimes even smart people can say and do rather dumb things. A man who is set in his ways, to do things with, not be rushed into something serious right off.I raised four sons, and have no family here so if you have children in your life, I am open to loving them too. I am a singer, song writer, musician, artist, so you dont have to be anyone but "you." I have been a homemaker all my life, lived in the woods and rural areas of Upper Michigan. Transplant two years ago by myself in Wisconsin, am interested in any activities and having a friend who just happens to be a man. I have met three men who had lost their wives in death to cancer. I am not interested in meeting men who live constantly in the past, have put their wife on a pedestal and compare everything you do to them. I live in the present, not the past. I moved to Janesville to "NOT" have a car and ride the bus everywhere. Hope to have a new life now that my sons are men. I have no grandchildren here so if you do, that would be a great plus for me if you shared. I am very young for my age.
Sign
Libra

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 3 (1.6 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Scarred, Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Dark Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Homemaker
My Speciality Is
Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is
never worked outside the home
I Make This Much In A Year
Less Than $14,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Music, Movies, Dining, Photography, Religion / Spirituality, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Camping, Fishing / Hunting, Volunteering, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
With me not having a car, I would meet you at the library, walk over to a restaurant, and eat, and if it was not 24 below zero, take a walk by the river, and maybe hold hands. I would want a place not crowded or really noisy. I would like you taking me someplace after we met and got to know each other.
I've Always Wanted To Try
going on a river boat ride and dinner on the river, spending the day riding and seeing new places. Visiting a zoo or museum or an auction, going on a picnic,, or making a fire and sitting by it listening to music, oh whatever. I am new here, no friends or family here.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Perfect, I Don't Have Any Friends

Views

My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
to live one day at a time in the present, not the past so I am able to look forward constantly and postive faith to know I will do the best I can each day, have the best I am able to have and to go to bed at night thanking God for the small things as well as the plan HE has for me. My goal is always to be an encouraging funny, but serious person who is full of love, compassion and very resourceful in any area.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Friendly

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Documentaries, Movies, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Classical, Jazz, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
When I Read, I Always Read
Religious, I Don't Like Reading, I'm An Author
My Idea Of Fun Is
I enjoy and notice the simple things in life. It does not have to be "much" to entertain me, I am not materialistic and impressed by any toys, I like to go places, see things, and I hope to meet someone who enjoys fishing maybe or hiking, or camping, whatever, maybe a picnic, I love camp fires and fire places, cooking on the grill, never travelled much, moved way too many times.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For?
A man who is confident and secure in "who" he is apart from anything he owns or drives or entertains you with. Some one who is real, gentle, not harsh, insulting or rude or insensitive. I want a friend, a best friend first and hope to have more. Someone who enjoys laughing, enjoying each new experience, and not holding to the past.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend