Work to keep that "1st Date feeling"
oldironman
Salt Lake City, Utah | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
To give a little idea of my “personality”, I’ve been a bouncer in nightclubs one night and attended the ballet/opera on the next! I’m currently studying the “Bushido (Samurai Warrior Code)” and the Knight's “Code of Valor”. I’m a “Leo on the Cancer Cusp” (so ‘those’ books say). Interestingly enough, it says that this particular star sign has the “perfect” balance between our masculine and feminine sides! Along with this 50/50 split, I’m also the “hopeless romantic” in both relationships and life. Also, along the way, I’ve managed my “bumps & bruises” with college football, power lifting, martial arts, boxing, sword fighting and still 5x /week in the gym. I guess I’d have to say, “There’s never been a dull moment”! As for movies, give me ones that are either action or romance, like “Gladiator”, “Rocky Balboa”, “Rambo” along with “Somewhere In Time”, “Sleepless in Seattle”, “Message In A Bottle” and “The Vow”! Presently, I’m an Empowerment Counselor, dealing with the “Spirit, Mind & Body”; but doing this “dating thing” is very difficult for me. Please forgive me if I sound “melodramatic” in what I’m about to say. You see, it’s hard to fathom when you’ve lost someone, who you believed was that “special one”, made only for you, that the universe would see fit to give you another “chance” at Love. To be sure, many will try to console you by saying, “You’ll find someone else.” But, in saying that, it just seems to “minimize” who and what we felt the other person was to our life! So now, very simply, I’m just looking to “get out more”, meet new people and share in their experiences of life. That’s all I believe one can ever really ask for.
Sign
Leo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Athletic
My Height Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Divorced
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Chest
Body Art
Strategically Placed Tattoo
My Hair Is
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes
Status
My Education Level Is
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Other
My Job Title Is
Spirit, Mind & Body Counselor/Trainer
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Average Joe
My Social Behavior Is
Friendly, Observant, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Arts & Crafts, Exercising, Learning, Movies, Religion / Spirituality
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Going Shopping, Playing Dress-up, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Wow! If there is such a thing, all I can think of is a scene from "City Slickers", where Mitchy the Kid, asks Curly: "Were you ever in love?" Curly said, "Once". It was along about sunset when I was riding past this farm house. There, outside, hanging her laundry, was a beautiful woman. And as the Sun shone through her dress, revealing the shadow of the figure that God had blessed her with, I knew that it just couldn't get any better." Mich replied: "What did you do?" Curly said with a sigh, "I just kept on riding. Mitch said, "But, why? She could have been the 'one'! And to end, Curly replied, "Maybe; maybe not."
I've Always Wanted To Try
Singing
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services
Once A Month
My Political Views Are
I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is
My Goal in Life is best described by Emerson in his poem of "Success". "To leave this world a bit better by a child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived---This is to have succeeded."
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Romance, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Classical, Country, Jazz, New age
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Health, Philosophy
My Idea Of Fun Is
Alone, would be "Sword Fighting". With my "partner" would be "Dinner and a Movie"; Redbox/Netflex & snacks; and as Christopher Cross sings, "We could go walkin' in a windy park; take a ride along the beach; or stay at home and watch TV, you see, it really doesn't matter much to me....but there's a warm wind blowin'; the stars are out; and I'd really love to see you tonight!"
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Empathy, Humor, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
Hmmm? Not knowing specifically what is being asked for here, I will say that MUST surely be there (given time)! It can be seen in this quote: "She is the 'one' who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words." As said in the movie "Avatar": "I see you."
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend