Smart blonde is not an oxymoron!

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

Age is just a number - attitude is everything. Am high energy, barely 50, don't feel it. I need fun, balance, and harmony in my life. I love my job, work hard, want to enjoy spare time and relax, too.

Just returned to KY in November '08 after 30 years in PA. Was married 25+ years, divorced for 2. Am building new life here. I have gone out alone, but enjoy doing things with someone compatible more. Being alone is better than being with the wrong person, but being with the right person is better than being alone. Not looking to be joined at hip 24 - 7, should have some separate interests, but sharing each other's most important ones creates a special bond. Who I'm with has always been more important than what I'm doing. I value friendships highly, and want to hold on to the ones I left behind in PA, while making new ones here.

Have always been caretender by nature, and enjoy giving of my time and energy to those I love. Want someone who will respond in kind. Am affectionate, hugging, snuggling, back-rubbing, very physical person. True romance has nothing to do with jewelry, expensive flowers, fancy chocolates, etc. It's in the little things, like sleeping in on weekends, having someone cook for me, helping me with dishes/chores, snuggling on the couch watching TV or a movie, good music and a glass of wine in front of a fireplace, etc...

Am very verbal, but am also a good listener. I'm a smart blonde (not an oxymoron) and an extremely sociable person - approachable, outgoing, extremely flexible, and comfortable in most any situation - sporting event, family dinner, special occasion, business dinner, or holding your hand in a crisis. Seeking similar attributes in a partner.

Life's too short to worry about things out of our control, and negative people are very draining to be around. I am optimistic about life, love, and happiness, and want someone to share those things with me.

Am Activity Coordinator at a premiere skilled health care & rehab center - LOVE IT! Am very attached to my residents - treat them with as much love and respect as I would my own relatives, and I look forward to work every day. I'm very lucky to be able to say that!

Sign

Libra

My Body Type Is

Curvy

My Height Is

5' 1 (1.55 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

My Hair Is

Blonde

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Medical / Health

My Job Title Is

Activity Coordinator - Skilled Care Unit

I Make This Much In A Year

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

I Live

With Parent(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Brain

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Exercising, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Family, Theater, Travel, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meeting for lunch, dinner, coffee, a drink, or dessert someplace quiet enough for conversation and getting to know each other, but not so intimate as to put on romantic pressure. An event having something to do with shared interests would also be good, as long as there is some conversation time.

I've Always Wanted To Try

singing with group or partner, whether it's a vocal jazz ensemble, a big band, swing band, or in a club with a good accompanist. Love music, making harmony. If I won lottery, would keep day job that I love, but would open a warm, relaxed piano bar with a couple of good musicians and hire folks to manage it for me.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Spiritual But Not Religious

My Political Views Are

Liberal

My Goal In Life Is

to continue to grow, explore, contribute to the well-being of the universe (or at least my little corner of it), learn new things, make new friends, and eventually find that special someone with whom I can grow older gracefully. Want a true life partner - good times are sweeter, and tough times are not quite as tough when shared with the right person.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

Fiction, Health, Humor, Mystery, Philosophy, Satire

My Idea Of Fun Is

discovering great spots on Bardstown R. & Frankfort Ave. Like Cafe Metro piano lounge, Stevie Ray's, Carly Rae's, Molly Malone's celtic music jams, Tim Krekel & others at Zeppelin Cafe, BBC, Bearnos by the Bridge, etc... Am quite fond of Homemade I.C. & Pie Kitchen as well. Love music/making harmony. Love most music, especially standards from 20's-60's, and James Taylor, Eagles, etc. from 70's on. Love to read - don't get much time these days. TV - also like 24, NCIS, Seinfeld. Am fond of sweets, esp. pie, and slow sipping on Southern Comfort. Post-divorce, I discovered that I enjoy trying new things - like football, ice hockey, volleyball, gymnastics; movies/tv in front of fireplace;antique/sports car events; flea markets;volunteering;spending time w/very good friends.
Am loving all the Derby Festivities!

What Do You Find Attractive?

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Want to find folks who share my values & interests - Family and friends are a priority. Long term, want special someone to kiss goodbye in the morning and come home to at the end of the day - marriage not required. Have always been caretender by nature, and enjoy giving of my time and energy to those I love. Want someone who will respond in kind. I am not materialistic, but I need someone who is fiscally-responsible, able to prioritize, and live within your means. Prefer someone who is good communicator, conversationalist. Want to learn about you without feeling like I'm pulling teeth to get a response other than yes or no. I like optimistic, intelligent, self-aware, open, compassionate, energetic, socially-confident men. Want someone who is happy with himself but willing to make room in his life for a partner.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Committed