Still looking for my attractive soulmate

I Can Speak

English, Dutch

I Would Describe Myself As

I describe myself as being:
Honest, caring, experienced, know myself, loving people. Good listener. Self assured
I like to spend my free time:
Reading, Photography, editing photos, woodwork, metalwork, fixing things (hate painting) discussing life's challenges. Teaching basic principles of christian counselling. Spending time with good friends, surfing the net. Eating out, Cinema.Sailing, walking, hiking. Enjoying nature.
I would like to spend most of the time in the bush or at the sea. However that is not always possible so I like to do the things that are necessary at home. Reading, Photography, spending time with friends, surfing the net. At the end of the day I would like to cuddle up to my partner so to speak, each doing their own thing if possible. Go out for dinner, watch a movie, go for coffee or a glass of wine and chat about life (and death), the whole spectrum. Scary? Not really, that's life and the way to live it
If I had one wish, I would wish for:
To meet a real soulmate again to spend time together with, who knows herself, accepts herself, wants to improve herself, is elegant, good looking well groomed and still prepared to roughing it (in the bush I mean), no neuroses. Hahaha I want it all and there I blow it!!! It takes time and effort to really get to know somebody. But you asked me didn't you? Don't worry I am rather flexible and forgiving! But please supply a photo with your profile if you are interested! No serious overweight ladies. So sorry.
I know my strengths and hopefully my weaknesses as well. A weakness is mostly seen by other people though.
I am most thankful for the Lord for having brought me this far in life and my past wife who taught me a lot about love, caring and wisdom.
I am thankful for the incredible friends that have supported me through extremely difficult times in my life when my wife passed away.
I love to read personal development, psychology, science, counselling, making repairing things, real handy man.Nature walks, bushwhacking with the camera.
My partner should know that I do not necessary plan for the day. I am laid back. Do take life serious, but not myself too much. I am mostly in a good mood in the morning and during the day. Love my coffee in the morning. Love to discuss the mysteries of life and being human.
Things that are particularly important to me are
1. My partner, God
2. My friends
3. To have balance in life.
In a relationship I am looking for:
Respect for each other's views. Having very much the same values. Spending time with each other. Being openly affectionate. Enjoy each other's companionship without having the feeling that you have to entertain all the time. Feel comfortable in each other's company. Being able to communicate at a deeper level then just the weather. This does take time and a bit of practice, but everything can be learned. Putting an effort into the relationship. Being really good friends and trusting each other. Forgive and forgive!!
I basically feel at home in any place, but the outdoors in the woods at the sea are the most comfortable for me (As long as it does not rain too much ). Can't really say that I feel uncomfortable anywhere. I feel at home just about anywhere except artificial things like a casino.
I do not like slovenes, loud, aggressive people who are arrogant, argumentative. Do not believe in God. Believe themselves to be superior due to education, position, money or even beauty.
This makes me laugh:
People who have a knack with the peculiarities of the English language. Witty without being sarcastic. I love people who can laugh about themselves. Good clean fun. No slapstick. Clever humor!
Everyone has different passions, such as art, sports, music, family and faith.
I am passionate about:
Family, faith, music, photography, psychology, hiking, nature, the woods the sea, my friends. Not necessary in this particular order.
My friends describe me as a good listener reliable, affectionate,romantic. And that's it folks.

Sign

Scorpio

My Body Type Is

Slim

My Height Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Research / Science / Engineering

My Job Title Is

Civil project manager (retired)

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Observant, Friendly, Outgoing

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Photography, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Theater, Camping

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

An attractive well groomed lady who doesn't look her age and have a drink and/or a meal either in the afternoon or the evening with candle light and soft music if possible.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Scuba diving,

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

To continually improve myself regarding social skills, life skills, helping and teaching others.
To be the best that I can be the way I was blessed with gifts.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Horror, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Classical, Jazz, Latin, Dance

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Instructional, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Science, Science Fiction, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

Having breakfast,lunch or dinner with my friends or (Wife, still looking for one). Going to the Kruger Park. Doing portrait photography. Life is fun as long as you have friends or particularly wife, I nearly typed wives, but no thanks one is enough.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Attractive, well groomed, well educated, self accepting woman that is not being negatively influenced by her upbringing. No baggage, no neuroses. Is able to say sorry, as I am, and accepts me as I am, as I will her. PLEASE REMEMBER, NO PHOTO, NO REPLY!!

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed